Spiritual Journey Insights

Friday, July 18, 2025

Role of Miracles in Church Growth

In the modern church, there is often debate about the place of miracles. Are they still needed? Do they have a role in evangelism or church growth today? To answer that, we must look back at the early church — specifically, the book of Acts — and ask: What role did miracles play in the growth of the church then?

The book of Acts is more than a history of the first-century believers; it’s a blueprint for mission, a testimony of the Holy Spirit’s power, and a record of how a small group of people turned the world upside down — in part, through miraculous signs and wonders.

Let’s explore the key roles miracles played in the expansion of the early church and what we can learn from them today.

🔹 1. Miracles Validated the Gospel Message

In a time when many claimed religious authority, miracles served as a divine signature, authenticating the message of Jesus Christ.

“Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles.”
– Acts 2:43

Signs and wonders confirmed that the apostles were not preaching human ideas but divine truth. The miracles gave weight to their words, proving that God was at work among them.

🔹 2. Miracles Drew the Crowds

Throughout Acts, we see a pattern: a miracle occurs, a crowd gathers, and a Gospel sermon follows.

A prime example is Acts 3, where Peter heals a lame man at the temple gate. The miracle becomes the spark for a powerful sermon that leads to thousands believing.

“But many who heard the message believed; so the number of men who believed grew to about five thousand.”
– Acts 4:4

Miracles caught attention — but they were never the end goal. They opened the door for the message of Christ.

🔹 3. Miracles Led to Salvation and Church Growth

Miracles were not merely impressive moments; they often resulted in transformed lives and growing congregations.

“The apostles performed many signs and wonders among the people... more and more men and women believed in the Lord and were added to their number.”
– Acts 5:12,14

People weren’t just amazed — they repented, believed, and joined the fellowship of believers. Miracles led to faith.

🔹 4. Miracles Demonstrated the Power of the Holy Spirit

Miracles in Acts weren’t limited to healing — they included deliverance, prophecy, divine protection, and boldness in preaching.

In Acts 13, when Paul blinds the sorcerer Elymas, the Roman proconsul sees the power of God and believes in Jesus.

“When the proconsul saw what had happened, he believed, for he was amazed at the teaching about the Lord.”
– Acts 13:12

Miracles showed that the Gospel was not just words, but power.

🔹 5. Miracles Confirmed the Inclusion of All People

One of the most profound miracles in Acts wasn’t just physical healing — it was the outpouring of the Holy Spirit on Gentiles.

In Acts 10, while Peter is preaching at Cornelius' house, the Spirit falls, and the Gentiles speak in tongues. This miraculous moment confirms their place in God’s family.

“The gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles.”
– Acts 10:45

Miracles in Acts were not just signs of power — they were signs of inclusion and unity.

🔹 6. Miracles Sparked Regional Revival – Lydda, Sharon, and Joppa

The Gospel didn't stay in Jerusalem. As the apostles traveled, miracles became tools that opened entire regions to Christ.

✅ Lydda and Sharon – Acts 9:32–35

Peter heals a paralyzed man named Aeneas in Lydda. The result?

“All those who lived in Lydda and Sharon saw him and turned to the Lord.”
(Acts 9:35)

This wasn’t just an individual healing — it led to a regional awakening. Both towns saw the miracle and were moved to repentance and faith. One miracle led to mass conversions.

✅ Joppa – Acts 9:36–42

In Joppa, a beloved disciple named Tabitha (also called Dorcas) dies. Peter is called, and through prayer, she is raised back to life.

“This became known all over Joppa, and many people believed in the Lord.”
(Acts 9:42)

Again, the miracle wasn’t the focus — it was the faith that followed. These stories illustrate how miracles led to revival not just in individuals, but in entire communities.

🔹 7. Miracles Were Not the Focus — But Jesus Christ

It’s important to note: miracles were not the foundation of the church, Jesus was. The church grew through:

The preaching of the Word,
The power of the Holy Spirit,
Fellowship, discipleship, and sacrifice.

“And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.”
– Acts 2:47

Miracles served the mission, not replaced it. They drew attention, but the message of Christ crucified and risen brought transformation.

🙏 What Does This Mean for Us Today?

We may not see miracles in the same frequency as Acts, but the God of Acts has not changed. When His people walk in unity, boldness, and obedience, miracles often follow. They are not for show, but for mission. Not to entertain, but to point to Jesus.

Let us seek not just the miraculous, but the Messiah behind the miracle. Let our churches not rely on signs, but also not ignore them. Let miracles — whether physical, emotional, or spiritual — serve their purpose: to glorify Jesus, strengthen faith, and lead many to salvation.

The Church in Acts grew because it was saturated in the Spirit, centered on Christ, and surrendered to God’s purposes.

Friday, July 11, 2025

Stories Are Meant to Spark Action

Missionary stories are not bedtime fairy tales. They are battle reports from the frontlines of faith. They are not just for reflection; they are meant to ignite action.

Yes, let’s talk about the great cloud of witnesses who went before us. Let’s honor their memory. But let’s also ask the hard question:

👉 What are we doing with what we’ve heard?

Missionary history should not just fill our journals—it should shape our footsteps. If we are always talking about what others did, but never stepping out to do the same, we are living in spiritual nostalgia instead of active obedience.

A Legacy for the Next Generation

We often talk about how past missionaries were remembered for their boldness and sacrifice. But have we paused to consider:

Will the next generation remember us the same way?

Will they look back and say,
"They lived for the Kingdom."
"They gave sacrificially."
"They didn't just read about the mission—they lived it."

We must live with a commitment and conviction that our lives, too, will be a testimony of God's faithfulness and our obedience. Not for applause, but for the sake of the Gospel and the glory of God.

Moving Forward With Faith

It’s wonderful to talk about missions. It’s needed. But talk is not the finish line—obedience is.

Maybe God is calling you to go.
Maybe He’s calling you to send, support, or mobilize.
Maybe He’s nudging you to pray consistently or give sacrificially.

Whatever your role, don’t stay stuck at admiration. Let the legacy of missionaries past move you forward in faith. Don’t just honor their steps—walk in them.

Let us be a generation not only moved by the stories of others but also committed to becoming stories worth telling.

“Here am I. Send me.” – Isaiah 6:8

Saturday, June 21, 2025

What’s in a Title? Reflections on 'Reverend' and the Use of Titles in Ministry

Introduction: A Name, A Title, and a Tension

In certain Christian circles, few things stir more debate than the use of titles—especially religious ones—before someone’s name. The title Reverend often becomes the center of this debate. Interestingly, although I personally do not use Reverend in my own introductions or communications, I often find it added to my name when others design flyers or introduce me at meetings. When I’ve had the choice, I’ve preferred simpler, context-appropriate titles like Pastor or Dr., depending on the occasion.

This isn’t merely a personal preference; it opens a broader discussion. Why does the use of titles trigger such strong responses? And what can Scripture, culture, and even language history teach us about this?

The Meaning, Origin, and Use of the Title "Reverend"

The word Reverend comes from the Latin word "reverendus", which means "worthy of reverence" or "to be revered." It is a passive form of the Latin verb revereri, meaning "to respect" or "to revere."

The term began to appear in English around the 15th century and was originally an adjective used to describe a person, as in "the reverend father." Over time, it evolved into a formal title placed before the names of clergy members in many Christian denominations. For example, The Reverend John Smith became a common way to refer to an ordained minister.

In its original usage, Reverend did not imply that the person was to be worshiped or exalted, but rather that their office or role in spiritual leadership was worthy of respect. It reflected the dignity of the calling, not the personal worthiness of the individual.

Today, the use of Reverend varies widely. Some denominations use it frequently, while others avoid it altogether. In some contexts, it's viewed as too formal or hierarchical. In others, it's considered a sign of honor and proper protocol.

1. Titles Are About Communication, Not Elevation

At its core, language exists to communicate. Titles like Reverend, Pastor, or Doctor aren’t inherently prideful or righteous. They are often used simply to convey one’s role or responsibility.

When someone addresses a church leader as Pastor John or Dr. Smith, it may not be about giving status—it may be about showing respect, giving clarity, or indicating function. Like saying Coach Taylor or Professor Adams, it helps people understand a person’s role within a specific context.

But like all words, titles evolve.

2. The Curious Absence of Titles in Scripture

This brings us to something fascinating: Jesus and the apostles were rarely, if ever, addressed with titles.

We don’t read:

“Reverend Jesus Christ”
“Bishop Paul”
“Apostle Peter” (except when Paul asserts his authority in letters)

In the early church, believers related to one another as brothers and sisters, not through layers of hierarchy. Jesus Himself warned against the desire for titles:

“But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers.”
— Matthew 23:8 (NIV)

This wasn’t a condemnation of leadership—it was a rebuke of pride and position-seeking.

3. Language, Culture, and Translation Gaps

In some languages, especially due to direct or informal translations, Jesus is referred to in ways that feel casual—even disrespectful. In cultures where elders are addressed with utmost formality, it’s ironic when our Lord is referenced in familiar or even irreverent tones.

This isn’t about forcing a title on Jesus. It’s about examining how our language choices reflect (or fail to reflect) reverence. If we show verbal honor to earthly leaders but casually mention Christ, something may be off in our spiritual instincts.

4. Words Change with Time—And So Do Titles

Here's a critical insight: the meaning of words is not fixed. They shift over time—based on how people use them. That's why we shouldn’t get overly rigid or defensive about the use or non-use of titles.

To illustrate this, here are some English words whose meanings have changed dramatically over time:

Awful — Then: Full of awe or wonder; Now: Terrible or bad
Nice — Then: Foolish or ignorant; Now: Kind or pleasant
Silly — Then: Innocent or blessed; Now: Foolish or trivial
Girl — Then: A young person of either gender; Now: A female child
Hussy — Then: Housewife; Now: A woman with questionable morals
Artificial — Then: Skillfully made; Now: Fake or unnatural
Clue — Then: A ball of thread; Now: A piece of evidence
Meat — Then: Any solid food; Now: Flesh of animals
Egregious — Then: Outstandingly good; Now: Shockingly bad
Literally — Then: Exactly as stated; Now: Often used figuratively
Gay — Then: Happy, carefree, or bright; Now: Primarily refers to sexual orientation

This simple list shows how much meanings drift, and titles are no different. What one generation sees as respectful, another may see as outdated. What one culture views as prideful, another views as polite.

As words evolve, we must acknowledge that we cannot be dogmatic just because we know the original meaning. A great example is the word worship. In Scripture, worship involves deep reverence, submission, and sacrifice—a heart posture before God. However, to many people today, worship simply means attending a church service or singing a few songs. That modern use may be incomplete, but it shows how language adapts over time. Being aware of that helps us teach and communicate more effectively, rather than simply correcting or criticizing.

There are also people who misuse titles or even use fake titles. Just like there's counterfeit in other areas of society, it exists in ministry as well. But openly mocking or ridiculing such people is not healthy. It often has the opposite effect: it makes others more critical, cultivates pride in those mocking, and causes people to look down on others rather than restore or correct them in love.

5. Keep the Focus on the Mission, Not the Title

At the end of the day, the real question is not: What should I be called? but:
How am I living, and whom am I serving?

Whether someone calls you Reverend, Pastor, Brother, or simply your name, the deeper issue is the condition of your heart and the clarity of your calling.

When I am introduced with a title, I neither insist on it nor reject it unless it causes confusion. I’ve found it most helpful to adapt based on context—using Pastor in ministry settings or Dr. in academic contexts—not for status, but for service and clarity.

Let’s not get caught up in the wrapping. Let’s make sure what’s inside—the message, the life, the ministry—is pure and Christlike.

Conclusion: Be Known for Your Character, Not Just Your Title

In an age where names carry weight and titles carry expectations, may we be most eager to carry the name of Christ well. Titles can be helpful. They can also be hollow. The best “title” we could ever earn is one Jesus used freely:

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” (Matthew 25:23)

Thursday, June 19, 2025

Socrates and Three Filters to deal with Rumors

“Is it true? Is it good? Is it useful?”— The Three Filters Test, attributed to Socrates

Introduction: A Whisper Can Wound

Rumors are often dressed as concern, curiosity, or "just sharing." They travel fast, grow wild, and leave broken trust in their wake. In an age of instant communication, Socrates’ ancient wisdom is more relevant than ever.

One of the most powerful stories attributed to Socrates is his "Three Filters Test"—a guide not just for what we say, but what we choose to hear. While its historical authenticity is debated, the principles reflect the kind of moral reasoning Socrates was known for.

Let’s revisit this timeless story—and what it teaches us about handling rumors wisely.

The Story: Socrates and the Gossiping Man

One day, a man came to Socrates and said,
“Do you know what I just heard about your friend?”

Socrates replied,
“Before you tell me, I’d like you to pass a little test. I call it the Triple Filter Test.”

Filter 1: Truth
“Are you absolutely sure that what you are going to tell me is true?”

The man hesitated. “No, I just heard it from someone else.”

Filter 2: Goodness
“Is what you are about to tell me something good?”

“No, actually, it’s quite the opposite…”

Filter 3: Usefulness
“Is what you are about to say going to be useful to me?”

“Not really…”

Socrates then said,
“If what you want to tell me is neither true, nor good, nor useful, why tell it to me at all?”

1. The Wisdom of Slowing Down

In a world of instant opinions and rapid reactions, Socrates’ first filter—Is it true?—reminds us to pause. Most rumors are fueled by assumptions or secondhand information. Passing them on without verification is like lighting a match in a dry forest.

Before we speak, we must ask:
“Do I know this to be true, or am I just passing along noise?”

2. The Power of Positivity

The second filter—Is it good?—is not about avoiding hard truths, but about checking our motives. Are we sharing to build up or tear down? To help or to hurt?

Socrates urges us to consider the heart behind our words. If our words don’t carry kindness or care, they may be better left unsaid.

3. The Discipline of Relevance

The final filter—Is it useful?—guides us to evaluate whether what we say has real purpose. Even if something is true and not necessarily harmful, does it serve a good end? Will it bring clarity, growth, or healing?

If the information serves no real purpose, it may just be empty chatter—or worse, harmful distraction.

Socrates and Today’s World

Apply the Three Filters Test to:

Social media posts
Conversations at church or work
Group texts or prayer chains
What you choose to listen to

Imagine how much peace and trust would be preserved if we used this test more often.

When You’re the Target of a Rumor

Socrates doesn’t just give us a tool to stop rumors from spreading—his wisdom also equips us to process them with reason rather than reaction.

When you're the subject of a rumor:

Ask: Is there any truth I can learn from this?
Avoid emotional retaliation.
Let your consistent life and character speak louder than gossip.
Choose forgiveness over bitterness—because responding with grace always outlasts revenge.

Conclusion: Be the Filter, Not the Funnel

Socrates’ lesson invites us to think before we speak, and even before we listen. Whether you're tempted to pass along a juicy story or struggling with what's been said about you, remember:

Not everything that’s heard needs to be repeated.
Not everything that’s repeated needs to be believed.

The next time you’re faced with a rumor, stop and apply the Three Filters:

Is it true?
Is it good?
Is it useful?

If it fails the test, don’t pass it on.
Be the end of the rumor, not the echo.

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Benefits of Selective Hearing

“Do not take to heart all the things that people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you.”
— Ecclesiastes 7:21 (ESV)

Don’t pay attention to everything people say, or you may hear your servant cursing you - — Ecclesiastes 7:21 (CSB)

Introduction: When Words Wound

Words are powerful. They build and destroy, heal and harm. But in a world saturated with opinions, comments, and criticisms—from social media to workplace banter—how do we protect our hearts from unnecessary pain? Ecclesiastes 7:21 gives us a simple yet profound answer: Don’t take everything to heart.

This small verse tucked into the wisdom literature of Scripture speaks volumes about emotional health, relationships, and spiritual maturity.

1. The Reality: People Talk—Sometimes Carelessly

The verse begins, “Do not take to heart all the things that people say…” Why? Because people say a lot. Some words are spoken in frustration, others in jest, and some without full knowledge or understanding. Solomon, the writer of Ecclesiastes, was well aware that even those closest to us—like a servant in this context—may speak unkindly behind our backs.

Rather than obsessing over every comment, God invites us to develop wisdom: discern when to listen, and when to let words pass over us like wind.

2. The Caution: Listening Too Closely Can Hurt

The second half of the verse is sobering: “…lest you hear your servant cursing you.” It’s not just that people might say something bad—it’s that you might actually hear it. That overheard criticism or accidental discovery of someone’s negative opinion can cut deeply, especially if you weren’t meant to hear it in the first place.

Solomon’s advice isn’t about denial or naivety. It’s about knowing the difference between feedback that helps and careless talk that harms. You don’t need to know everything people say about you. Sometimes ignorance is a form of grace.

3. The Mirror: You’ve Done It Too

The next verse (Ecclesiastes 7:22) adds a crucial reflection: “Your heart knows that many times you yourself have cursed others.” Ouch. Just as others have spoken hastily or harshly about us, we too have been guilty of the same.

This realization leads to humility. Before we get offended by what others say, we must remember our own failures with words. This balanced perspective protects us from pride and helps us forgive.

4. Living It Out: Grace-Filled Ears and Hearts

So, how do we apply Ecclesiastes 7:21 today?

Practice selective hearing. Not every comment deserves your attention. Discern what to absorb and what to release.
Guard your emotional energy. Don’t waste precious peace trying to please everyone or respond to every whisper.
Extend grace to others. Recognize that just like you, others have bad days, moments of weakness, or careless speech.
Ask God for discernment. Pray for the wisdom to know when to listen and when to let go.

Conclusion: Let Grace Be Louder Than Gossip

In a time when opinions come at us from every direction, Ecclesiastes 7:21 is a quiet, powerful reminder: You don’t have to take everything to heart. You are not what others say in frustration. Your identity is rooted in God, not gossip.

So let the whispers pass. Let the insults fade. And let your heart be filled with the peace that comes from wisdom, humility, and grace.

Monday, May 26, 2025

Marks of a Christ-Centered, Mature Christian

The call to follow Christ is not simply a call to believe—it's a call to become. At the heart of the Christian life is a radical transformation: moving from a self-centered existence to a Christ-centered identity. Jesus didn’t invite us to add Him to our lives—He called us to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow Him (Luke 9:23).

Spiritual maturity isn’t instant. It’s a daily journey of surrender, growth, and renewal. It takes time, testing, and intentionality. But this is the call of every believer—to grow into the likeness of Christ and reflect His character in every aspect of life.

So how do we know we’re maturing in our faith? What are the signs that our walk with Christ is moving deeper, not just wider? Let us explore the key marks of a Christ-centered, mature Christian—signs that point to true growth, not just outward activity. Whether you're evaluating your own walk or helping others grow, these traits offer a powerful mirror for spiritual reflection.

1. Grounded in God’s Word

A mature believer is deeply rooted in Scripture. They don’t just read the Bible occasionally—they study it regularly, meditate on it, and apply it to every area of life. They allow God’s Word to shape their worldview, guide their decisions, and challenge their assumptions.

They don’t chase emotional highs or spiritual trends—they test everything against the truth of God’s Word.

📖 Hebrews 5:14 – “But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”

2. Consistent Prayer and Dependence on God

Prayer is a lifeline, not an afterthought. Mature Christians pray not just in crisis, but in daily communion with God. Their prayers are not self-centered but are aligned with God's heart—for His glory, His will, and His people.

They are constantly aware of their dependence on God and live with a posture of surrender.

🙌 1 Thessalonians 5:17 – “Pray without ceasing.”

3. Lives the Fruit of the Spirit

True maturity is shown in character, not charisma. A mature believer consistently displays the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These aren’t just traits—they’re evidence of Christ living through them.

They are emotionally steady, spiritually grounded, and relationally healthy.

🍇 Galatians 5:22–23

4. Humble and Teachable

Mature Christians know they haven’t “arrived.” They welcome feedback, correction, and spiritual mentoring. They are willing to admit when they’re wrong, quick to repent, and eager to learn.

They are not defensive, prideful, or stuck in their ways—they are open to the Spirit’s work through others.

🧠 Proverbs 9:9 – “Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still.”

5. Serves Others with a Kingdom Heart

Rather than waiting to be served, mature believers take initiative to serve. They don’t seek platform or position but look for ways to bless others behind the scenes. They serve because they love Christ, not because they need applause.

True maturity is seen in towel-bearing, not title-chasing.

🧺 Mark 10:45 – “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve...”

6. Forgives Freely and Pursues Reconciliation

A mature Christian does not carry bitterness, resentment, or offense. They understand that forgiveness is not optional—it’s a reflection of grace received. They pursue peace and reconciliation, even when it’s hard.

They prioritize unity over ego and healing over being “right.”

🕊️ Colossians 3:13 – “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

7. Eternally Focused

Mature believers live with the end in mind. They are not consumed by materialism, popularity, or earthly success. Their decisions reflect Kingdom values—they invest time, resources, and relationships with eternity in view.

Suffering doesn’t shake their faith; it refines it.

🎯 2 Corinthians 4:18 – “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen...”

8. Shares the Gospel and Disciples Others

They are not silent about their faith. Mature Christians see themselves as ambassadors of Christ (2 Cor. 5:20). They are intentional in evangelism and committed to discipling others—not just attending church but helping others grow.

Their lives and words consistently point people to Jesus.

🌍 Matthew 28:19 – “Go and make disciples of all nations...”

9. Lives with Integrity and Accountability

What you see in public matches who they are in private. They live a life of integrity, resisting compromise and secret sin. They invite accountability from spiritual mentors or community, knowing that transparency leads to transformation.

They choose truth, even when it’s hard, and keep their word.

🧭 Psalm 15:2 – “He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart...”

10. Rooted in Community and the Local Church

Mature Christians don’t isolate themselves. They understand that growth happens in spiritual community. They are committed to the local church—not just as consumers but as contributors.

They serve, give, fellowship, and build up the Body of Christ faithfully.

🏠 Hebrews 10:25 – “Not neglecting to meet together... but encouraging one another...”

Saturday, May 24, 2025

Marks of an Immature Christian

When a person becomes a Christian, they are not just saved—they are called to grow in spiritual maturity. However, this growth is a journey, not an instant transformation. For many, progress can stall. They may appear active or passionate outwardly, but inwardly, their growth is misdirected or stagnant.

Some remain stuck in unfruitful patterns, mistaking activity for maturity. Deep down, they sense a disconnect between their outward expression and true spiritual depth. This disconnect can go unaddressed unless we are willing to honestly evaluate our hearts.

So how do we identify immaturity—in ourselves and in others? We begin by examining the signs. Let’s explore some key marks of an immature Christian to help us recognize where growth is still needed and to guide us toward deeper, Christ-centered maturity.

1. Inconsistent Spiritual Habits

They may attend church occasionally but lack daily spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible reading, and worship.
Their spiritual growth is shallow because it depends heavily on external motivation, not internal devotion.
Easily distracted by entertainment, busyness, or social media rather than prioritizing time with God.

2. Easily Offended

They often misinterpret correction or disagreement as personal attacks.
Small misunderstandings can lead to withdrawal or gossip.
Instead of resolving conflict biblically (Matthew 18), they may become passive-aggressive, isolate themselves, or leave a church quickly.

3. Lack of Discernment

They struggle to differentiate between biblical truth and cultural opinion.
May chase spiritual trends, prosperity messages, or popular influencers without checking Scripture.
Immature believers often base their spiritual views on feelings, traditions, or popular opinion rather than truth.

4. Self-Centered Faith

Their relationship with God is primarily about personal blessings, success, and comfort.
They are slow to serve, tithe, or sacrifice unless there is personal gain.
Their prayers tend to be centered on their own needs, with little intercession for others or the broader church mission.

5. Spiritually Unteachable

They resist correction or feedback from spiritual leaders, seeing it as criticism instead of care.
Often assume they “know enough” and become defensive or dismissive when challenged to grow.
They may cherry-pick Scripture to support their views instead of submitting to the whole counsel of God.

6. Driven by Feelings, Not Faith

Their commitment to God fluctuates based on mood or circumstances.
They worship passionately when things are going well but doubt or disengage during hardship.
Their faith lacks rootedness, like the seed on rocky ground (Matthew 13:20–21).

7. Gossips or Sows Division

They are quick to speak negatively about leaders or other believers, especially when things don’t go their way.
Rather than seeking unity, they create cliques, feed drama, or undermine church health through careless words.
They struggle to handle offense with maturity and may seek sympathy instead of resolution.

8. No Burden for the Lost

Evangelism is not a priority; they may believe faith is private or feel unqualified to share it.
They are more focused on personal blessing than on God’s global mission.
A lack of compassion for the hurting or unreached reflects spiritual immaturity and disconnection from Christ’s heart.

9. Inconsistent Church Involvement

They treat church attendance as optional, depending on convenience or mood.
Many are "Sunday Christians" who show for a service on Sunday and most of the time arrive late. Avoid serving, accountability, or small groups where deeper growth happens.
Often act as spiritual consumers, not contributors—wanting the benefits of community without the responsibility.

10. Seeks Titles Over Transformation

Motivated by recognition, position, or influence rather than humility and character.
May desire to lead before being faithful in small things or private disciplines.
Their identity is more rooted in roles than in being a servant of Christ.